Flirting Tips

Successful Dating Begins With Successful Flirt

Successful Dating Begins With Successful Flirt

Why are some people born natural flirts and others couldn’t charm the backside of a bus if their life depended on it? The power of flirting goes beyond attracting the opposite sex. Master the art of flirting and you also become a friend magnet and can use your skills to influence business relationships. “You’ve either got it or you haven’t!” is often what you will hear men saying when they boast about their conquests. Women, on the other hand, are coyer when talking about a man they have met. So as not to appear full of herself, she will often say to her friends “Ooh, I don’t think he likes me, what do you think?” If she is a successful flirt, however, she will be thinking along the same lines of a man, “Yeah, he was putty in my hands!” Flirting is an art requiring confidence without being OTT. A successful flirt knows how to get the balance just right; too much and there is a real danger you will be labeled as “slimy” (if you’re a man) and “party” (if you’re a woman). If flirting doesn’t come naturally to you, you can learn to flirt by building your confidence, believing in yourself and interacting with other people. Here are some basic flirting tips which can be practiced at work and/or on a social scene. 1. Have Fun! First and foremost flirting is fun! Whether you are the flirter or the flirty it makes both parties smile (on the inside as well as the outside!). Don’t take it seriously; be playful, be light-hearted, be infectious! 2. Ooze Confidence The best flirts have a positive outlook on life and are happy with themselves. To successfully flirt you need to feel good about yourself before you are able to transmit this “feel good” factor to the opposite sex. If you display a positive and optimistic attitude to life you will find yourself connecting with people who are right for you. 3. Make the first move Don’t wait for someone to approach you. If it’s someone at work you’ve got your eye on, wait for them to go to the kitchen and then make a beeline for the coffee machine. The same applies to a bar, wait for them to go to the bar and then squeeze in next to them. Start with a simple “Hello” and take things from there. What have...

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How to Spot Different Types of Flirting Signals

How to Spot Different Types of Flirting Signals

Discover the most common types of flirting signals women use and how to spot even the most subtle flirting. Some experts say 90% of communication is nonverbal. We send nonverbal messages to communicate; some nonverbal messages are simple to interpret their meaning; for instance, if someone is smiling at you, they are pleased with something you have done. Interpreting the meaning of different types of nonverbal flirting signals becomes a little more difficult. In the next few minutes, you will learn how to spot the six most common types of flirting signals. 1. Eye contact is the most popular way to flirt with someone in a crowded place or if the person is across the room: If you hold eye contact with a woman for 2 seconds or longer and she keeps looking at you then she is definitely interested and it’s time to take the next step and approach her. 2. She caresses or plays with her hair: Women put a lot of effort into ensuring their hair looks its best; for this reason, their hair is a source of confidence. If she is drawing attention to it she is attempting to act in a seductive manner towards you. 3. She places emphasis on her legs and feet: Women flirt a couple of different ways with their legs and feet. For instance, if she points her feet toward you, she is probably interested in you. Another more subconscious way of flirting is if she crosses and uncrosses her legs while you’re watching. This means she is unsure how to act when you’re watching her and she is nervous, meaning she is interested in you. 4. She licks her lips: women know men find this sexy and if she licks her lips while you’re watching she is definitely flirting. Also when we get nervous our mouths get dry and we need to lick our lips. 5. She exposes her neck, stomach, and other intimate parts of her body: If you see her drawing attention to intimate parts of her body in your direction you have an open invitation to approach her. This is the most common type of flirting. 6. She smiles at you: Another open invitation to approach her. The best reaction to this gesture is to smile back. When you are on the prowl to meet woman pay attention to these different types of flirting signals above; you will be...

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